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The full details of Mary's life after the
marriage are not yet known, but the couple moved round the country in
connection with Thomas's jobs which were senior postions to Lunatic Asylums,
Training Schools and later Workhouses.
They lived first of all in Carmarthen
where Thomas was Secretary to the Carmarthen Workhouse and where their first
child, Thomas Cort Smith was born in 1867. They then moved back to
Lancashire and may have lived in Manchester, where Edward Spencer Smith
was born in 1869 . By 1871 they had certainly moved to Liverpool where Thomas
had gained the post of Assistant Governor at the Liverpool Industrial Schools,
Kirkdale and Mary was the Assistant Matron.
Here they had Mary Elizabeth Smith
in 1871, but unfortunately the child died from pneumonia aged 18 months in
January 1873. She was taken back to Turton for burial in the Cort family
grave.
In July 1873, Thomas and Mary beat 2 other
couples for the joint posts of Master and Matron of the Foleshill Union
Workhouse in Coventry, positions which entailed them living at the
Workhouse.
After only 2 months Thomas became
seriously ill and died from Consumption in November 1873 . He was buried at St.
Laurence's Church, Foleshill. Mary was forced to resign as the positions
required a married couple.
Quote from Minutes following this sad
event: "At a meeting of the Board of Guardians of the Foleshill Union
held at the Workhouse on the 12th November 1873..." "Mr and Mrs Smith were
appointed Master and Matron of the Foleshill Union Workhouse on the 18th day of
June last and entered upon their duties on the 18th August. Mr and Mrs Smith
continued to perform the duties of Master and Matron up to the 15th October
when both were compelled to resign in consequence of the illness of Mr Smith
which resulted in his death on the 6th November inst." "Resolved: That this
Board state their regret that the death of Mr Smith should have terminated the
services of the Master and Matron, the Guardians being of opinion from the
short period during which they performed the duties of their respective offices
they would have proved valuable officers and they are certainly of opinion from
such service that Mrs Smith is in every respect qualified to perform the duties
of a Matron of a Workhouse or other Institution in a thoroughly efficient
manner."
The real mystery lies in the years after
1873 before October 1876 when she appears in Stockport for the birth of a
daughter, my grandmother Gertrude Rawson SMITH.
Gertrude's birth was registered at
Stockport but Mary stated the father was Thomas Smith! ( who had been dead 3
years, unless by coincidence it was another one). No doubt this was to give
respectability for the sake of her illegitimate baby.
It should be noted that the address stated
where the birth took place was the address of a Thomas RAWSON and Mary RAWSON
in 1871 with their family. (It seems likely that for some reason this was the
source of my grandmother's middle name of Rawson...see below)
But what about the "adoption" ?
The family story handed down but
probably changed over the years is that she left the child with her neighbour
when she went to visit the child's father, reported to be a seaman by the name
of Arthur RAWSON, whose ship had docked at Manchester or Stockport. She never
returned and the child was brought up by a family in Bell Green, Coventry.
We do not know for certain when or where this occurred but assume it was
Coventry because she was "adopted" by a family there, only 500 yards from where
Thomas Smith was buried, and 1 mile from the Workhouse where Mary had lived a
few years earlier.
It seems very sad that circumstances
forced Mary to leave her youngest child and that young Gertrude grew up
thinking her mother was dead (orphan on Census) whereas she was alive. For some
years the young child received gifts by post of beautifully embroidered clothes
until suddenly the gifts finished.
In 1881 Mary was at a boarding house in
Lowestoft, a mainly fishing port on the east coast of England, described
as a widow, and having her 2 boys with her. Her occupation was Forewoman in a
Potted Meat Factory.
The 1891 Census shows the widow Mary as a
boarder back in Chorlton, Manchester and her 2 sons were still with her
. Mary's widowed mother and 2 of her brothers were still living close by in the
same Chorlton area.
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